PEOPLE ARE STUCK IN THEIR LIVES

The systems, organisations, companies and governments are able to achieve their aims in whatever ways possible. They make rules and regulations for the people which may be right or wrong, but these rules ultimately help them in obtaining their estimates while ignoring all the drawbacks and downsides which people might feel in their lives. But they are right on their places thinking that there is no other way to do what they are doing by implying the laws that they make to protect and grow their businesses. 

Why people are stuck

This article is not for the organisations ans systems, instead this is for the people who can’t do anything but talk about their organisations and end in talking only. People are stuck in their lives in a circle, that they theirselves know is the circle which they can never come out of or cannot be changed in any other shape. 

People do their assigned task throughout the day while criticising it all the way. And even after the working hours they are still in the same phase of criticising and talking the same things with their family, friends and colleagues. It is filled in their minds. They are made scared and used by their organisations. They are left with no other choice but to walk on the path which is made by their organisations and to follow the laws which harass them and stifle their basic human rights. 

These are the people who never talk about creativity, ideas and the future that they can make for themselves. They do not want to talk about innovations. They don’t want to come out of the circle in which they are stuck. And the irony here is that almost all of these people know that the system or circle they are working in is totally corrupt and it will be so and cannot be changed by whatever actions and efforts they put in, and they still talk about it in their free time. And i feel sorry for the people who do not even know about the system they are working in. 

People fail to understand themselves and their potentials which can be very well used in many other ways instead of thinking and talking about the problems they face while working in the corrupted systems. They fail to understand that there may be some organisations in this world which run as per the people but most of them run as per them and not as per people. So, if nothing can be done, then why so much talks and criticism. 

People who come out

I do agree with the fact that systems can be changed in many aspects by taking steps, but those steps are not taken by the people who keep talking but by the people who know about the ways and possibilities of something that can be improved. They smartly come ahead to take some steps and successfully achieve what they want. And, they are the only people who not only change things but come out of the circle instantly when they know that this is the right moment for them to come out of it and make some changes in their lives. 

These are the people who are not afraid, who are not stuck in that circle. These are the people who do not talk about other people but the ideas and innovations. And unfortunately, these are also the people who are liked by and respected by their systems and organisations. 

You want to be stuck or to come out

So, i would like to ask you that is it worth talking and wasting your time or you should do something for yourself too. Is it worth to be stuck in an unchangeable situation or is it time to think about the true potential of yours which can be utilised in the right direction. 

If you cannot afford to leave your organisation and also you do not want to work in it, then it is better to work on yourself and your skills which might help you in growing your capabilities, which further can help you to come out of the circle that you are stuck in. 

So do something creative, learn dancing, music, painting, swimming, go to gym or do whatever makes you happy. It will help you stay away from talking and creating something good for your own life. 

You can only look inside yourself because there is no way to look inside others’. Imitating others and listening to others is a way to make you confused because you cannot change your basic characteristics and also you cannot adapt someone else’s. That is why, there is a need to do something introspection now and do something in your life, otherwise at the end when you will look back, you would see yourself to be stuck forever.