CONFIDENCE AND OVERCONFIDENCE

Job is a stable thing, it seems harder and easier on the basis of preparation you have made. And, preparation is made on the basis of whether you are confident or over-confident. How is confidence different from over-confidence? What are the situations when you are confident? And, what are the situations when you are over-confident? Why should you not be over-confident? And, why should you be confident? Let's find out the solutions.

                               

Confidence comes when you are fully prepared, well- equipped and knowledgeable to proceed. Over-confidence comes when you think that you are fully prepared, well- equipped and knowledgeable where in reality you are not. Confidence comes when you take risk and try out things irrespective of the situations and without thinking about the consequences, where you face failures and get back up. Over-confidence comes when you get succeeded in some phases of your journey and think that all phases are same. Here, you predict the results without being indulged and getting experienced in those things. Confidence always takes you close to your dreams, whereas over-confidence drops you back to the stage where you started. It makes you assume that everything is going to happen according to you. And if not, you blame others. But, when you are confident to do something, you never like to show off. You like to act and then show the results, which makes you a real and respected person.

                                     

Let us assume that you want to learn football to understand this concept. At first, it seems to be an easy job because you have tried it once and played well. But, when you actually play it in an actual match with a strong team, you lose the match, which totally breaks you down. And, now it becomes harder. Here most of the people give up because it seems to be harder than they thought. It happens because they already predict according to them and become overconfident. The game is actually the same, it is made easier and harder by confidence and over-confidence. Confident people work hard to enhance their confidence, and over-confidence people make lame excuses and lose their confidence. So never be over-confident as it throws you away from reality and makes you a fake person. Overconfidence is just a airy thought in your mind which fades away when you face tough times and realise that you have been distracted for so long.

Confident people work harder to enhance their confidence.