HAVING KIDS?

Becoming parent is a life altering experience, you are truly blessed to have a baby as it takes a long journey to reach there. It really feels great to watch your baby, who is just like you not only in appearance but also in habits. The babies are just like magic things who can immediately wipe out your bad mood after you come home back from your office.

         

But it also introduces a new set of challenges for you. Once you have babies you are just restricted to household things. You have change in your priorities. After working for whole day, if you want to watch some serials or game matches or anything you like, you just can’t. Because your cute one is standing in between you and your entertainment as he/she is the one who needs to be entertained and that is by you. It feels very good to play with your kid and make him smile, make him like you, make him come to you so that you can take him in your arms. But there are times when you juggle between the responsibilities of raising a child, managing a household and pursue your personal and professional endeavours. In these times there is a thought in your mind that you do not have time for anything else than your kid. You just can not do anything because of the fact that the baby do not let his mother do anything when you are away, which is why you have to keep the baby after coming from office in order to get the food timely.

It is one of the tough times that you have had in your life, but it will also pass just like every one of them. You just need to prioritise things and make strategies.

        
 

1. Make priorities

You clearly understood that after having a baby your lifestyle and priorities have changed entirely in a new way. So here, instead of thinking away from the responsibilities you just need to know your top priority, which is your baby. After that put things one on another as per their importance. As per the situation it is very clear that you can not do everything that might be able to do earlier, so setting priorities will really help in executing things. 

          

2. Understand the time realm

The time that you have is not for ever, there will be a day when your baby will be a grown up and you do not need to think much about his playing time, his feeding time and his sleeping time as he will eventually become wise enough to take care of all of these things. So what you need to know here is that just enjoy the time with your little one because it not going to last for long. 

The messed up house, inability to do anything when the baby is waking, anachronous food and many things. You will just miss afterwards. One day your baby will grow and become able to play with himself, then you will have sufficient time but even after having so much time you would want to play with him. 

       

So every moment or phase in your life has its own pros and cons, when your baby is small you do not have time apart from playing with your baby. When he is a grown up, you have time but your baby doesn’t. It is just the flow of life, so instead of passing any of the phases you should focus on enjoying the moment and also make time table and strategies in order to execute your plans which are halted by the existence of your baby. 

   Enjoy the time with your baby.