- It’s not easy to manage your job’s commitments and your family’s fulfilments. You should be very proud of yourself for the fact that you have been doing this for so long. Most of the times you have to keep your family problems in your pocket while doing your job and the same you do with your job’s issues. You do not share them at the wrong places in order to keep yourself productive at workplace and able to keep your family happy. This dual responsibility is one of the great capabilities that you have in yourself. So, keep working and stop thinking much about the difficulties that you face in managing these two things because it’s a role that one has to play in one’s life.
- It’s not easy to follow your passion. All the people who sacrifice many things to make themselves capable to follow what they are good at are very less in number. There are family needs and responsibilities, scarcity of resources, lack of knowledge and many more challenges that you may have to face when you choose to follow what your heart says. But, as it is said, life is not so smooth. Every step is unknown and beyond of our imagination because we have not reached there yet. Here comes the acceptance which opens your heart and mind, making you to accept everything that comes ahead. It brings the sense of realisation of the truth that difficulties are the opportunities that you should seek. So, it’s really a great thing that you are doing and you should be very happy for being different from rest of the world.
- It’s not easy to maintain your physical and mental well-being while performing your job duties. There are issues of time and mind’s freeness from family and profession. Maintaining both of these things requires a good level of time management, mental stability and intense discipline. If you are one of those who are doing it, then you should be very satisfied and happy to know that your capabilities and will powers are more than the major part of this society.
- It’s not easy to nurture a baby. It becomes the top priority which, in turn, compels you to leave everything such as your hobbies, passion, studies etc. It only allows the basic things that are to be done in order to fulfil the daily needs such as your job, physical exercise etc. You are blessed if your baby is allowing you to do all of those things, mentioned earlier, because the babies require proper attention, otherwise you will be responsible for their unfavourable behaviour when they grow and become a mature one. So, leaving all of your interests and fully focus on your baby’s growth and development is a sign of good parenting and also a great human being for the reason that you are making your next generation smarter, more capable and spiritually able. So, you should feel blessed and thank god that you are given a great responsibility for taking care of a human being and also enjoy the process and make memories because time never repeats itself. The present time is the only time that you have.
- It’s not easy to keep a good sense of mutual understanding between your wife and other family members. It is very common to misunderstood things due to the reason that your wife comes from a different background as compared to your own family. It creates a big difference in their mindsets towards culture, tradition and other things which make it hard for you to establish a good level if mutual understanding between both the parties. Though, there are families which are exceptionally doing great in this aspect, however it is a common problem in every other. In case you are managing it, then it’s really great, but if you are not, then keep trying. Just keep in mind that it is one of the difficulties of life that makes you mentally strong and responsible.
Life is not easy, but still it is to live with great will power and full of joy. Difficulties are always opportunities to seek and challenges to face in order to become stronger and more capable. So, instead of praying for an easy life, you need to pray for will power and thank god to be bestowed such a great life.
Feel proud because you are doing it.
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