Would you always like to blame someone for your position, for the place you are at, and for the person you are? You should take responsibility of your actions and the position you hold instead of blaming others. This happens only when you do not like what you do. You start holding other things responsible for your ongoing life. This is true that every human being does not have same environment and conditions. And, it is also true that these both things put a large effect on one’s life. But you definitely have choices in every kind of situation. When your environment and condition do not suit you, you are left with two options. One is that you continue living there and blame god or whoever and whatever you want to. Other is that you think of changing it and live your life as you want and thank god.
Blaming never carries you forward, it just limits your life and stops you from using the limitless sources that are present around you. Our parents, for instance, blame that they were not taught well, otherwise, they would have been different from what they are today. Is it true? Of course not. A person who comes out of his comfort zone really does not have time to think of these things. He crosses all the barriers which are brought by the environment and condition. Only a person who wants to stay in his comfort zone makes lame excuses of not getting success.
If you know that something is going wrong, why don't you try to fix that? If you don't like your job, why don't you leave it instead of abusing it? If you don't like science, why don't you leave it and pursue arts instead of blaming science and the people who suggested you pursue science? If you don't like anything, why do you pretend to like it instead of being straightforward? There are situations when you are compelled to do things, but you are not compelled to do it continuously.
You have enough time and energy to utilise. You are to dream and then accomplish it. Cross all the barriers with the full potential you have within you. Blaming others takes a lot of time, energy, and overthinking. It takes you away from your real personality. Because you can never know yourself until you start taking responsibility for your actions.
Blaming your parents, your past, how you grew up, and then not putting a single step towards your dream is total stupidity. People blame others when they can't think of better ways of progressing. And, people stop blaming when they find new and alternate plans.
You can never know yourself until you starttaking responsibility for your actions.
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