HOW TO BE PATIENT

You might have heard that patience tends to positive results. But nobody tells you how. Many experienced people tell us to have patience and say that everything will be okay. However, believing them seems difficult when you are stuck in situations where having patience demands huge efforts and risk of loosing something. For this, you have to have experience which comes with age and failures. And if you are not experienced then there are chances that you loose patience very easily. There are many reasons to loose your patience. Once you try to understand these reasons, you will be able to control your patience. 

One of these is your excitement of doing something. Sometimes you are so excited that you want to finish the work as early as it can be and you forget to take care of the quality of that work. You forget that good things require time, better things require more time and the best one requires the most time. Now, it is upto you weather you are chasing something ordinary or you want the best one.

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Other is your fear of loosing something. When you think that you have limited time and have to reach somewhere in this time, you create a fear for yourself and also loose confidence of gaining what you want. And once you loose this confidence, you can not be able to hold yourself and reach there on time. This makes yourself in a rush which tends to equally lower results, which can never make you happy because you have not obtained as much as you have gone through according to you. To understand this, you need to make yourself well managed because management is the first thing that should come in your mind for smart and effective work. Other is that you need to gain knowledge because it makes you able to walk on path you make. 

To better get this create a list of all the tasks you would like to do. Once you write them on a page, you will know that you are not free to wait for something. You have a lot of stuff to do. And, do not think that you are not ready for it because negative words make you suspicious, doubtful, careless, guts-free, depressed, and sad. Whereas positive words inspire positive emotions like humor, courage, optimism, faith, and Confidence. If you keep yourself busy doing something, you don't have time to be impatient. Now, what should you do? Every time you need to ask yourself questions to know what you actually want. And, if you want something, then why do you want it? Suppose you want to learn music. Why? Because it's trendy? Or do you love it? If you find the answer, then you don't need to be impatient.

            Don't give yourself time to think about patience.