This is when you like the other side
Most of the time, we want to say something, but we don't feel like saying it due to some misconception of assuming the reaction from the other side. We keep thinking about the response but never would like to see it.
There is a probability that we don't like the response, but there are chances, too, that it will be according to our assumptions. What if we don't like the impedance? It will make us know what the other side thinks and their expectations. And, what if we need that reaction? Now we don't need to assume, as we know it. This kind of communication helps us to come out of the confusion that we have been having for the long time. Clarity is very much important for the peace of mind.
Though we should always think before we speak. But, it doesn't mean that we don't even talk. We are not required to be quiet. Someone can be introvert which does not seem to be a problem, but being quiet can create troubles. This is a world of competition where your exposure matters a lot, and that can come out only after you expose. So be the way you are. If you are a talkative person, who talks a lot, then be talkative. It's your nature. And, why do you think you should change your nature? The only thing you need to take care is the usage of words at appropriate time and place.
The other side always wants to hear what you want to say. Saying the words always reduces the communication gap and enhances the understanding between the two sides, which is the most important thing to be together for a long time.
It's not about any particular relationship. It's about all the relationships in the world such as you-parents, you-siblings, you-friends, you-wife, you-boss, you-girlfriend, and many more. It is always okay to be the first to ask or say something. Once you adopt this habit, you will see how simple and unique life is. By doing this you will be able to fill the gap which has been stopping you from stepping up.
It will help you only if you always have words to communicate, not assumptions. You need words to convince, praise, ask, and say. If you want to praise someone, then praise someone. Because it takes nothing from you, but it definitely makes someone feels special. And making someone feels special is an art, which can be exposed just by using the words, not by skipping the phrase. Being unspoken makes us weak and never brings clarity to the mind, which is very necessary for our satisfaction. If we are clear of something, then we know the workable ways and the ways that are not workable.
JUST SAY IT
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