COMPARE SADNESS NOT HAPPINESS

There are so many reasons to make you sad. But more than that, there are so many tricks and ways to eliminate your sadness. Nobody can have the worst problems in this world. If you look around, there must be someone who has worse problems than yours. You should compare your issues to others’. You will find that you should be happy instead of sad by doing this. You should be pleased by having things that other people don't. Though, a person can never always be happy, but we can practice reducing our pain step by step in order to value ourselves more than our problems. Sometimes problems are so tough that it does not seem appropriate to give someone any solutions. In that kind of situation, being quite, listening and observing is more than sufficient. 

                                        

There are so many reasons that make you happy. But don't compare your happiness to the others. Because happiness is a feeling that can't be measured and doesn't have any saturation or embarking level to reach, it is something that makes you feel good, friendly, of your nature. The more you compare it, the more you increase the chances of decreasing it. So, never compare it, because it is a joyful moment which you are having from the limited time you have gotten to live. Reason of your happiness keeps changing time to time but the joy remains the same. That is why we should not seek the reason of joy, instead we should feel the joy. 

When you are sad, do not just see that people around you are happier and have a better life than you; talk to them and try to be a part of their happiness. There are moments when something shingles in your mind and takes you out of your sadness by making you realise how silly your sadness was. And those moments can come anytime, anywhere, and with anybody. And if you keep sitting in a room and thinking about your issues, it will only affect you negatively. You will see yourself as a pitiful person who always seeks the sympathy of others, who doesn't give a fuck about your issues because they are not your mothers.

Likewise, if you are happy, you do not need to talk about it. Feel the worthy smile of yours. Observe the surroundings this time. You will find yourself liking everything you see. Learn the value of happiness by actually valuing your happiness by avoiding comparing your joy with others' happiness. It seems to be a mean thing to do, but there should be something that is to be mean which belongs to you, deserves to you. You have the right to be happy, bestowed upon you.

A happy person can't hate even the ugliest thing in this world.