BEHAVIOUR

The atmosphere you get during your childhood, the education you get in your life, the friends you make, the parents and teachers you have and the job you do for earning can be very well estimated from your behaviour. The words you use and behaving yourself are one of the most important and one of the only things that you are left with in the end. 

After all the experience, struggle, hard work, sacrifice and earnings of your life, your behaviour is the one which makes you a great personality. Of course, your past failures and present success matter but people will listen to you only when you make them listen and that can be accomplished by using humble words and elegant behaviour. 

There are many instances in your life when situations for having a polite behaviour are not in your favour, but still having a little smile gives you the courage to stay calm and behave in a civilised manner, which not only handles the situation with great consequences but also saves you from regretting later. This smile will come on your face when you learn its importance by using it when you are aggressive wanting to do and say a lot of things out of your consciousness and this smile stops you doing that. 

Sometimes, your good behaviour becomes a source and reason of entertainment for the people. They start using you taking benefits of your politeness as they think that you are bounded in a an area which is not allowing you to come out and take action in your favour. But, having a polite behaviour and using humble words do not mean that you should be used by people for their selfish purposes. You can very simply and gently say no to them if you think you are not wrong. It does have anything to do with your image and them. It is just that you are not being used by them. Because if you avoid saying no, you will be taken for granted and be wondering between them and their works. If you just say no, you are saving yourself from the regrets, of being used, that you may have in future. 

Saying no is never rude, but saying unnecessarily yes is definitely a foolish thing to do with yourself. It is not a bad thing or comes in bad behaviours, rather it is a smart thing that takes you out of the mesh where many people get stuck for their entire lives and have to do a lot of hard work to come out. So, it is better to refuse things, that you can not do, at the first moment. 

Apart from this, your behaviour becomes a major reason for people’s learning from you. There are many people in this world who have great knowledge and experience, but still it does not ensure that they can influence others with the treasures that they have. People can be influenced by those who make people listen to them which can be brought to the reality by having a good behaviour and adapting positive and effective words in that good behaviour. 

Moreover, you can make good relationships and maintain them forever just by becoming a gentle person which takes nothing but the shifting of words in an appropriate manner. This manner of words eradicate the gap between you and your partner and reduces the chances of disputes on small matters. So, just take care of your behaviour. 

This is only treasure that you are left with in the end.