Don’t follow man, follow yourself to gain such heights

     

In a birthday party, i saw that the very minor things were managed by all the ladies present there. The things include decorations, food menu, songs for dancing etc. The decoration was according to the birthday boy personality, room size and budget too. The food was very unique, different from all other functions, starting from starter, then the main course and the desert at the end. Moreover, the songs were with the trend and of DJ type on which people can enjoy and dance. 

All of these things were taken care of by the ladies of that house and the ladies who were called. By watching all this i came to realise that they have their own way and sense of enjoyment which is very different from men’s. What i understood is that it is not about the difference and standard of enjoying a party or a function, rather it is about following own ways to express yourself where you feel the best for yourself. 

    

Apart from enjoyment, there is this management that i tried to learn there. At what time people may come at the party, at what time cake cutting should be there, what should be the welcome drink, what are the activities that should be included in the party because there would be a lot of kids, what kind of food people may like in dinner, all of these things take time to think, then make plans and finally execute those plans effectively with whatever resources present around. 

There are very basic things that a man can forget, but a woman always knows what people may need apart from food and party. She maintains the cleanliness, arrangements of items, toys for kids to come and many more things like that. 

This article is mainly for women to perceive the value of their own capabilities and ways of doing things. By realising things from this small frame of life, they can learn to execute the same ideas and strategies to the big frame of life where they lack behind men because of their mind that let them think less of them and stop in taking further steps to come out of a trending zone that women have been following for many decades. 

     

There are, though, many women who have broken this cycle and have come out to show their full potential in front of society. They are the women who have self confidence and belief on themselves to do something that is far beyond of many women to merely think. However, a woman also need to think of a fact which is that a woman should never follow man to become equal to them, rather it is their feminism that they should follow to gain equal heights as that of a man. Because they have their own mind and heart which are quite different from man. They can never become man but they can definitely become equal to man which they already are, it is just the mental barrier that our society has to break and women should actively take part in this as they are on their own because of the abilities they have. 

So, never think less of yourself and come out mental barrier zone that is stopping you to show your potential to this world.