As we strive for success, it's crucial to acknowledge the vital aspects of life that often get overlooked, leaving us feeling unfulfilled. Let's explore these key elements and their significance in our lives.
Appreciating What You Have-
A man has this urge to get more and more, which is why he is always running in his life without realising that he has already got a lot of things that many are still trying to acquire. He must understand that one can never get everything in one life. Many things are to be left behind and considered unnecessary.
Some people earn a lot of money, but they are unable to pursue their passion. Some follow their passion but struggle financially. But what is common denominator to understand is that having everything should not be our goal, rather it is to be satisfied with whatever you have and just keep believing on the process.
Being humble-
Whether one is a successful person or not, humbleness is one great quality that every one must possess to become a real gentleman. Being humble to all the people out there irrespective of their status helps you in becoming a better person and makes you able to create a great society. Because everything reflects itself. You show an act of kindness towards someone, it will reflect back to you in double of its intensity.
And once you keep doing that, reflection will get brighter and brighter making only you progressive in many aspects of life. For instance, it makes you a grounder person, who never carries any ego with him. What further then happens is that when you are an egoless person, you tend to focus more on your targets having very less distractions, because ego, often, is one of the biggest hurdles in our life that keeps coming between us and our goal.
This practice of being humble should be very well started from your home itself. It includes our parents, siblings, spouses and every other relative who is around you. You will see changes in yourself and your progress also.
Acknowledging Weaknesses-
We work on our strengths to get success. We work hard to strengthen our talents and compete and win, but in life we often fail to work on our weaknesses.
Before working on them, we have to know them first. And we must admit that we have them given the fact no man is perfect in this world. It has become the basis of many daily life disputes. People do not want to admit that they have any weak points and may commit some mistakes. But they ultimately do and indulge in fights.
But do we feel good in fights of proving that we are not wrong? No one feels good after fighting. That is why we need to understand this that if we don’t feel good in fights then me must search for the ways to stop it. We have to know the reason so we can fix it. And the only reason that can be is to know ourselves more and work on our weaknesses.
And, this is not a chapter of our life that needs to be finished as soon ad possible, rather it is a life long practice that we have to adapt and make it a habit.
The Power of Admiration and Respect-
People keep demanding this and that from god everyday. They never thank for getting such a beautiful life. We can easily point someone out for his faults but it is very difficult to admire someone for their hard work. Why this happens? Because we follow our ego not our heart. Our ego tells us to do all of this stuff. But once we start following our heart and take over the ego, we would be able to become a true gentle man. A gentle man who admires other people, respects them in order to make a great relationship and then create a well civilised society.
It is because every thing reflects itself. If you do good, it will come back to you in one or another way.
Nurturing Family Bonds-
There is no end of work in our life. We can create as much work as we want. But why so much work? We have job and do work because of our family and our dreams. But, if we think deeper it is the family that comes before our dreams. So, why do we make our work as the biggest excuse to stay away from them? Why do we not give them proper attention?
We have the same time that keeps repeating itself day after day. There is no single day which gives us more hours so that we can relax in those extra hours. The time is limited. We are the people who have to manage this time and divide it in parts in order to make a balance in our professional and personal life.
We need to fix our working hours, our sleep time, our personal time and the most importantly time for our passion. Only after doing this, we may be able to save some time for our loved ones. So do this management to avoid work excuses.
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