There may be days, weeks and months that can go without indulging in small fights with your loved ones. Whether s/he is your sister/brother, father/mother, wife/husband or friends, your relation cannot go as smooth as you want to be. Sometimes the fights are on serious issues, but most of the times these small disputes dance around the very basic things in our daily routine at home.
Whatever the issue causes the occurrence of fight, it is very important in teaching you a good lesson. You do not realise it but you, gradually, overcome these small issues as you grow up and experience these small fights with your loved ones. You come to know that this is a regular process and happening of your day, which is why these things start bothering you lesser with time. But what are the aspects and areas in your life that keep greeting better because of these fights? How these become the reason of improvement in your personality? And, how this helps in other things in your life.
1.Realisation of 6&9 -
Every time you fight is because you are unable to identify the figure; the 6 seems to be 9 from your side and 9 seems to be 6 from your side. It simply means that you assume the other person wrong, whereas it is just a matter of interchanging positions. However, after experiencing a lot of disputes, on the issues that are not even necessary to fight upon, you make yourself able to put yourself on the other side and witness the actual figure. By doing so you enhance your sensing ability, which helps you in maintaining a good mutual understanding and a better communication. This way it helps in improving the relationship.
2.Problems are converted into jokes-
Initially, what the fight was has now become a comedy to laugh at. It happens because of the fact that now you already know the consequences of that particular fight and you find yourself teasing each other by making jokes on the earlier reactions and conversations you had in that fight. It again lessens the reasons that may become the cause of the fight because your mind has already faced the situation and now it can react in a way better which helps you in avoiding any fight as you know there is no fruitful results of this. Further, this mindset makes you able to avoid every situation that can start disputes and you take a step ahead towards a peaceful relationship.
3.The other aspects
Things in life do not run in a single line. They run in parallel. That is why the office problems have a big impact in your personal life and personal problems have the same impact in your professional life. And when something good happens to you, it does the same effects. You can neither fool your boss nor your wife by pretending that you are okay and do not have any issues going on in your mind. Because it does not require much knowledge of psychology, it just appears on your face, which is easily recognisable.
However, when you start seeing yourself in your professional and personal life, you will find that you have the same personality at both the places, which is the reason of your fights or happiness. So, the lessons you learn from the domestic disputes can be very well implemented in your office in order to improve your performance. As i told earlier, things run in parallel.
The difficulties here is to practically see these things and implement in your daily routine. This can only be done by changing your point of view. It is true that during the fight you cannot think much of learning from it as your subconscious mind has now taken over your conscious mind. But, after the fight when you can relate things in a logical manner, you should be in a position to analyse the whole fight; the issue and the result. Then only, you would learn from it and avoid it the next time. Gradually, you will become a man/woman who is ready to understand every situation and find an effective way out of it instead of satisfying your ego and fight with loved ones.
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